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When my kids were little, I read "Twas the night before Christmas" to them on Christmas eve before they go to bed...
Fatigue.
Talk with anyone that suffers from Crohn's and it'll be THE most common symptom amongst us. But what, if anything, can we do about it?Believe it or not, and even though you don't want to do it most days, but exercise can also reduce your fatigue levels.
Also, the simple act of sleeping helps. But the effects of the disease itself, like pain, anxiety and depression are also factors in contributing to feeling tired.I just spent another few days in hospital after having another stoma revision. The surgery went well and I am 95% recovered. The nurses and staff were great once again (except when I was to be discharged; took way too long) but I always seem to have an issue with the food. Not because of the taste or anything, but with my Crohn's, I have dietary restrictions. Trying to convey this seems to always be a problem which shouldn't be.
Now, I get that patients need to get the necessary vitamins and nutrients while in hospital but if the patient does not eat the food or drink because they can't, then I am thinking about all the wasted food each hospital must throw out because it cannot be re-used (prepackaged food or drink) for the germs.
I do not have a problem with the food itself, sometimes it is quite tasty (definitely an improvement since the 1980's) but I am going to use my last hospital admission as an example.
I let the nurse know what I could and could not eat (roughly) after the dinner arrived following my surgery. It consisted of rice, carrots, chicken, mandarin orange slices, coffee and Ensure. From all of that food, I ate a little bit of the chicken as I just had surgery on my intestine and experience has told me to not overdue it on the first meal. I drank a lot of water instead. When the nurse came in to check, I told her that I have Crohn's and I could not eat the carrots (they would have to be way softer than they were), nor the oranges (too much fiber in the skin which goes right through me), and especially the Ensure. There is too much "stuff" in Ensure which causes diarrhea for me. I told her that I also could not handle dairy products, so no milk, etc. I mentioned that it would be great to have peanut butter as this is a protein my body can handle.
No surprise, breakfast came with cream of wheat, milk, coffee and Ensure again. Needless to say, I did not have breakfast but the nurse did bring me some cold toast later. I explained, again, what I could and couldn't eat. Lunch came and same issue and so on and so on. So I would pick through things I could eat but I never had a full meal while in hospital for three days. Each meal came with Ensure after telling who would listen that I could not drink it.
I am not sure whether the nurses never conveyed the message properly or no one was listening. The message must have gotten through though because the paper menu that comes stated "Crohn's restricted diet" yet still was given food I could not drink. Obviously they have a program in the kitchen and when they punch in "Crohn's" certain menu items pops out, but not taking in the individual patient's feedback.
So, three meals a day for three days and 98% of everything I received needed to be thrown out.
Even in hospital I can't get away from lumping all us IBD patients into one category, not taking in the fact that we experience IBD differently. If I was staying in hospital for longer, I would have requested a dietitian to come see me. I have had this many times before and they are great at getting what I need for meals but as I was only going to be in for a few days I did not see the point this time.
I think hospitals need to make some changes to their nutrition program and maybe allow patient's to make changes because of dietary restrictions after that first meal, like maybe something on the paper menu that could be returned to staff almost like a suggestion box or on the pre-admission form. I realize they probably can't do this with the hundreds of patients but something needs to change and hospitals may want to have a patient advisory board for these types of things.
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Back in 2019 I received an email from a PhD student (Lucy Prodgers) from the University of Leeds in the United Kingdom inviting me to take part in a study called "Men, Social Media and Inflammatory Bowel Disease". Normally I don't participate in things like this because some of these are just scams, etc. but in this case the PhD student is also a Crohn's patient and, to be honest, I was intrigued by the concept.
The study, with me and two other men, was in two parts, the analysis of my publicly available social media and blog posts specifically related to IBD followed by an interview with her to learn more about my experiences with IBD, blogging and social media use.
I did not have to do anything for the first part, just needed to give her permission to go through, and use, my social media and blog posts pertaining to IBD. The second part, the interview, was not as stressful as I was anticipating. This was almost 3 years after my initial contact with Lucy but the interview was not stressful and in fact was like I was speaking to a friend. Very fluid and comfortable. So much so, I contacted her supervisor complimenting Lucy. I found her "take" on my postings, including pictures, very intriguing and fascinating as I had never realized how others perceived my posts. I actually never thought about it before and was interesting to me.
Now, 5 years after the initial contact, her study, “How Do Men Who Post Publicly on Social Media Author Themselves and Their Experiences of Crohn’s Disease? A Dialogical Analysis of Three Cases”, is available online.
You can read the study here.
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I recently finished a very heartfelt book (written by my good friend Jennifer Lock) about the struggles, the tears and triumphs with living with a chronic illness along with mental illness. It is very well written with a good sense of humor.
I have known Jenni for many years and we have talked and supported each other through these years, even though we have never met, but even I never realized the struggle and pain she was having. One chapter had me almost in tears. This will give you and understanding what someone with a chronic illness goes through. Crohn's disease is so much more than a bowel disease and everyone who reads this book will get that understanding.
You will read about Crohn's disease, fibromyalgia, mental illness and suicidal tendencies and the struggle to deal with coming out of it all.
This book can be found online on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, ImagineWePublishers, etc.
A must read for anyone with a chronic illness.
It was 4 years ago this month that I had my second ostomy surgery. I had a temporary loop ileostomy in September to divert stool from my rectum so my perianal disease could heal. I was suppose to have this temporary one for a few months but I was losing too much liquid and my kidneys couldn't keep up. I was in "acute kidney failure" according to the ER doctor. I had a GFR of 4 and creatinine of over 1300 (a normal GFR is 60 and over and a normal creatinine 0.07-1.3 mg/dL) and was admitted to hospital in the hope to get my kidneys back to a point where we could finish the permanent ostomy/proctectomy surgery. Sooner than what my colorectal surgeon wanted but the perianal disease was healing nicely. It took two weeks in hospital for my kidneys to recover (thank goodness) to a point where my colorectal surgeon was comfortable enough to do the surgery.
It took 6 hours but that was because my surgeon painstakingly, millimeter by millimeter, separated my intestines from my abdominal wall that were attached from the dozens of previous abdominal surgeries. Too much scar tissue. I was in hospital for a month and 9 days for the temporary ostomy.
On this Ostomy Awareness Day and personally my 4 year "stomaversary", I can honestly say that I do not regret in any way getting the ostomy even though I had been avoiding it for almost a decade. I had been living in pain for 32 years (1988-2020) prior to the surgery and to be honest it is a strange feeling NOT feeling or expecting pain. There is also no more rushing to the toilet anymore. I have a new normal that took getting used to but totally doable and I have more freedom with the ostomy.
I would be remiss not thanking everyone who has been there for me over the many many years and their love and support, especially my wife and kids, but also the many nurses and health care providers who have a thankless job in my opinion and are not paid nearly enough.
Finally, my colorectal surgeon who has done an amazing job with the surgeries I have had with her. Not only is she an awesome surgeon, she is very personable and listens to my concerns without judgement which I am sure many of us have experienced the opposite. I cannot thank everyone enough.
My only regret..... I did not do the surgery sooner.
The simple answer? Yes.
I have had another article published on inflammatoryboweldisease.net about skin conditions with Crohn's.
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I have had another article published on inflammatoryboweldisease.net about my surgical journey with Crohn's.
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